In His Own Words
About him
I'm not looking for a partner in crime; but somebody to bail me out would be good, or at least to provide conjugal visits.
I work part-time for one of the newspapers, while muddling by tutoring literature and philosophy and procrastinating over my magnum opus.
I’m kind, clever and unconventional.
I’m a big fan of literature (just as well, really), drama and museums. Having studied classics and then theology with philosophy, I continue to take an active interest in these areas.
I’ve a wonderful young daughter who takes up much of my time, and my work hours are unpredictable. So I’m looking for an easygoing muse to inspire me (and perhaps be inspired in return) while doing fun things like pub quizzes, theatre, exhibitions and whatnot. And plenty of time in bed.
About his ideal match
I don’t like nose piercings (is that perhaps a protected characteristic?), people who use anything more than a light filter on their photos, or women who stick their tongue out in photos.
They must be understanding of the fact I don't have a tremendous amount
Those considerations aside, I’m pretty easy.
I’d like somebody with intensity but without too much of an eye on the future. Somebody who’s spontaneous and fun but can nonetheless provide constancy and kindness, while understanding of the fact that life is pretty busy. Oh, and please be tremendously hot!
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Wandsworth, London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
50 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Arabic; French; Other | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district SE1 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age range: |
35 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Daring; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outspoken; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; News |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Music; Photography; Reading; Singing; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Cycling; Pool; Squash; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |





