In Her Own Words
About her
I have a full-on life (parenting, full time job, my art) but open to company/ friendship/ possibly more.
I love art and music(classical), cats, dogs and walks in the woods, but also enjoy being at home, writing and making art/ being by myself/ the quiet of solitude. I would prefer a day in to a day out; and if out, a deep connection with a few rather than hanging out with many.
I love my age (hitting 50 was a great moment) and my sault n pepper hair :) , but still shocked seeing photos of others my age. Who are all these old people? Inside, I am very young.
I have a great deal of self irony. I am sarcastic, too, but in a kind way, and always open to laugh at myself.
I value honesty and despise manipulations, silent treatments or inability to talk openly. Cultural differences that shape how "honesty" and "openness" look like matter, too - I lived in three countries, feel at home everywhere and nowhere... and have a great deal to say about that. Being a social scientist helps, too
A few more "what do I do" bits: researcher and illustrator, educator and visionary. I write books, teach and think about the world with paper, scissors and glue in my hands. I value education highly (not the degree per se!), but despise snobbery. I love music deeply but sadly do not play an instrument myself (drumming on every surface doesn't really count!). I prefer animals to people but cherish good companionship. No patience for intolerance or racism.
I have four cats.
I know how to smile with my eyes alone, and how to draw almost anything (without AI!)
About her ideal match
Positive, culturally-sensitive, respectful, intelligent (emotionally and otherwise), caring, responsible. Self-aware, with a good sense of humour. I don't have a type and am too old to know that there is no ideal match. Has anything on my profile resonated with you? Let's talk.
p.s. I only have a few deal breakers: drugs and smoking; drinking beyond recreational; racism and homo/transphobia; Brexit/Reform/nationalism; lack of boundaries and selfishness. Oh, and the inability to say "I am sorry, I was wrong".
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About her
Country of origin: |
Russia | |
Location: |
Manchester, Greater Manchester, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
52 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Other | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Russian; Other | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
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Anywhere in the World | ||
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Within 60 miles of postcode district M20 (Manchester) | ||
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Female | ||
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45 - 65 | ||
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Moderately important | ||
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Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
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Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
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University; Postgraduate | ||
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