In His Own Words
About him
I’m not here to pretend or play games. I’ve faced storms most wouldn’t survive and rebuilt my life from the inside out — not perfectly, but honestly. I care deeply, listen properly, and always try to leave people better than I found them. I’m a grounded, soulful bloke with cheeky charm, a love of deep conversation, daft humour, and strong coffee. My life is built around helping others dream big and heal deeply — and I’m finally allowing myself to live and love just as bravely. If you're after something real — connection, compassion, and maybe a few laughs along the way — let’s talk.
About his ideal match
She’s warm, witty, and emotionally intelligent — someone who’s lived enough life to know what really matters. She’s comfortable in her own skin, doesn’t need fixing, but is still growing. She’s not afraid of silence, depth, or laughter that comes from the belly. Compassionate, curious, and honest — she can sit with the mess of life without flinching, and dance in the joy of it when it comes. A woman who values connection over convenience, truth over games, and who sees partnership as a place to grow stronger together — with love, humour, and a bit of cheek along the way.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Redcar, Cleveland, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
German | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district TS10 (Redcar) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
51 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 1" (154cm) - 5' 11" (181cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Some sensual satin lingerie |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Dance / Disco; Heavy Metal; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Gardening; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Boxing; Camping; Chess; Darts; Football (Soccer); Martial arts; Snooker; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I don't have any family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
Tent in the woods |
Politics: |
Socialist |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Real People Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |